Not sure about you, but we’re so over reading “fuzzy socks” and “essential oil diffuser” on every holiday gift guide this year. Don’t forget that the holiday season is also about dreaming, wishing, and hoping. In other words, things that have proven elusive are absolutely still on our list! Here’s to hoping that when someone sees “Trip to the Amalfi Coast” on your wishlist, they’ll at least find some middle ground and take you for a weekend in New York. Hey, shooting high means you’ll probably land in the middle, right? So, for this holiday gift guide, The W founders, Lauren and Manda, have rounded up some of their current obsessions and wishlist items—some sincere, a few whimsical, and others absolutely hopeful. And don’t worry, some of them are even realistic! Let’s get the wheels turning for the ones in your life that are tricky to shop for—like your bestie, your mom, or even your sister-in-law!